It's amazing the amount of negative language I hear everyday. Whenever I get the chance to I pick up my two children from school, many times I hear parents tell their children 'be careful', 'don't do that', 'stop running or you will fall over'and I feel like telling the parents off for being so negative. Now don't get me wrong here, being a parent myself I will tell my children not to do something if I think they are doing wrong however my view is that too many people talk negative language to each other. Test it out with your family and friends, tell them that you are going to do something out of the blue and see what their reaction is positive or negative. Please let me know how you get on.